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Resources - Adjusting to a New Country and Culture The Adjustment Experience
When you decided to study in the United States, you may
have anticipated that some adjustments would have to be made with respect
to differences in climate, food, time, and culture. The cultural adjustment
process is not an easy or comfortable one, but it can be an extremely
productive and rewarding experience. It does not happen overnight. It
may take several months to feel comfortable in your new environment.
Many people attain new levels of self-awareness, personal growth, and
gain a new understanding of their own cultures in addition to that of
the new country. Although everyone goes through some adjustment process,
it is important to remember that the experience is very personal.
Stages of the Cultural Adjustment Process:
Stage 1: You may experience
general anxiety combined with a great deal of excitement. There are
many details to keep you busy. Often, you find there is no real time
to sit down and think during the first few weeks in a new place. When
the excitement wears off, you may feel very emotional.
Stage 2: When the initial
excitement fades, you may feel a lot of frustration and become tired
of operating in English. It may seem to take forever to accomplish something
that once took you a very short time. You may miss friends and family
back home and have less energy and tolerance than usual. Changes may
occur in your eating and sleeping habits. This is a time you need to
pay extra attention to your health. It is important to remember that
this is a normal and expected part of the cultural adjustment process.
REST.
Stage 3: A greater sense
of regularity now becomes noticeable. During this time, you may find
that you laugh at the mistakes that irritated you only a few weeks ago.
You may also find that information is more easily absorbed, and your
energy level is higher.
Stage 4: The final stage
is a sense of ease in the new culture. You have a better understanding
of how the culture works, and parts of it may even begin to feel comfortable.
Steps that will help you through the Cultural
Adjustment Process:
- Be aware of the existence of the cultural adjustment
process. Realize that it is natural to miss your family, friends,
and home. Talk about these feelings with someone you feel comfortable
with or someone who has experienced the same feelings in the past.
- Sometimes it can be important to spend time with people
from your home country or those who are in the same situation as you.
There are many international student organizations that you can join
to meet others.
- Find an American to be a cultural informant for you
to gain insights into American culture. Note: Before
you ask a question, ask yourself the same question of your home culture
and make sure it is a question you could answer about your culture.
No one likes to be asked impossible questions. Also, try asking several
different Americans the same question. The differences and similarities
in answers may surprise you.
- Stay busy. Get involved in activities, but also continue
hobbies and sports that you enjoy in your home country.
- Maintain your sense of humor. Anyone who has lived
in another culture has funny and/or embarrassing stories. You are
not alone. Laughing at these situations can ease the tension.
- Keep realistic expectations. It may take longer to
accomplish tasks in a new culture, a new academic environment, and
a new language.
- Remain open minded, flexible, and adaptable. You will
find things that don't make sense. Remember that you are experiencing
these events through your particular cultural lens. It will take some
time before you can see through an American lens.
- Remember that being in a new culture can be confusing.
It is often difficult to figure things out on your own. The important
thing to remember is to ask questions.
- Communicate with your instructors at PSU. In many cultures students do not
talk to the faculty. Here, in the United States, it is extremely important
to talk to your instructors. If you do not understand an assignment, are going
to miss class, or are unable to hand in an assignment, talk to your teachers.
The only way they can make informed decisions about your class work is if
you inform them. If you feel uncomfortable speaking with them directly, you
can speak to the staff in ISSS.
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